OtterZero ([info]otterzero) wrote,
@ 2003-11-20 07:59:00
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Current mood: awake

Brainstorming thanks, and game group observations
First, a thank you to all the folks that sent me brainstorming-activity suggestions. I still haven't picked one, but now I have a lot more options to choose from. The exercises in the class textbook are laaaaaaame by comparison.

Second, I've been thinking a bit recently about responsibility -- not at work, where I think I have that worked out, but rather at the game events that I started last year, along with my partner [info]vilhelm. We started a third-Tuesday-of-the-month game night at the local Pride Center, because we wanted that sort of group to exist, and no one else was running it. More recently we expanded to a second day per month, a Saturday strategy games day. While that originally started as an offshoot of the Pride Center, we moved it to a local coffeeshop/bakery and it gradually became an event without any specific orientation, so to speak. (Not that I haven't had straight friends go the games days at the Pride Center, but I understand that other straight folks might feel weird going there, not out of homophobia but perhaps for fear of intruding.)

Things have been going pretty smoothly, but recently a few people pointed out that I haven't been too good about planning days far enough in advance, nor keeping people informed about the events. I've also realized that I probably should have been inviting more people to the game days and nights. It's kind of just sinking in that I'm really the key person for these things, and I have to take it a bit more seriously.

This is kind of a change for me -- I'm used to gaming being a much more freeform thing, as [info]ariadnesthread can attest to from our college days :) Now that I'm outside that whole system of colleges and dorms and constant access to gamers, there's more to plan and set up. Who knew that setting up a day of fun could be so much work? Okay, well, not *that* much work. Just something that's been on my mind this week, mainly because our game night at the Pride Center went pretty well... and some of the attendees were clamoring for more days per month. Sheesh.

Anyway, I'm rambling, and need to get back to work. Til next time,

-- Bill




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Ah, the halcyon days of gaming goodness and academic meltdown
[info]ariadnesthread
2003-11-20 06:48 am UTC (link)
I miss those days some times. Call it the nostalgia of being 30, if you like.

I remember the marathon all-weekend, stopping-only-for-food sessions. I miss that. I miss the camaraderie and silliness and cliquishness of it all. The voiceover in "Stand by Me" says "I never again had friends like I did when I was twelve"....that's true, but it's also true, I think, that you never have friends again like you do in those first years of college. The forced physical proximity, the shared burden of course-induced psychosis (or is that only a function of JHU??), feeling like you had a little bit in common with people just because you all qualified for/ended up there.

I suppose I'm just feeling adrift. My Maryland friend group abandoned me in summer 2002, for no reason I can figure out. My group now is a looser collection of adults with actual lives. Nearly half have spouses and kids. It's not quite the same, even though we do game.

Which reminds me--I'm extremely pleased that you have a long-term partner and are happy being with him. I'm jealous, of course, but happy (I haven't had a date since October 1995. Not that I'm counting or anything. :-P They need a not-quite-fallen-but-definitely-slipped-Catholic convent. I'd be so there).

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[info]podling
2003-11-20 06:52 am UTC (link)
Hey, invite me to your yahoogroup!!! Or re-invite me, as the case may be. I know the spam filter eats stuff from them occasionally...

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[info]paper_lanterns
2003-11-20 07:06 am UTC (link)
I don't know how techie-like anyone of your friends are, but you coud always post a schedule online. Make it dynamic and easy for you to change. Would also allow people to acknowledge if they will be there or not. :)

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